Monday, March 31, 2014

Gotcha Forever!




Today, after waiting so long, our lives are forever changed.


We are now a family of 9.

There are 2 less orphans in the world.

And as I type this my new children are sound asleep, their lives forever changed.

It is interesting when you adopt 2 at once, such different ages.




Syler is 8 years old, almost 9. He gets it! He walked into our arms WANTING to be there. He is a complete joy and will melt your heart. I am pretty sure I have never enjoyed anything more than seeing him take a bubble bath tonight, probably his first EVER. We skyped the kids tonight and he said everyone's name. He knew "Kenna" right away from the trips each year.


Mercie, 2 years old,  just wants to be back with what she knows and it is heartbreaking to watch. She has stood at the door and cried for hours. And I do mean hours. We finally got a few smiles tonight, but that was ONLY because of Malaine. She likes Malaine best. Of course. So we are being careful of that. We know she needs to bond with us.

Tomorrow we will go back to the civil affairs office to finalize the adoption. I am praying that she does ok. She basically cried for over 5 hours straight till she fell asleep. She is in our bed right now, so if you will pray for her little heart tonight.

Thank you for your prayers. We are so happy tonight. Going to bed knowing that our children are right where they should be.





Sunday, March 30, 2014

On the Eve of Forever


   Praise the Lord oh my soul and and forget not all his benefits-who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies                  your desires with good things.
Psalm 103

Today we attended church in my favorite city. The above verse was the message. Of course we have no idea what is actually being said. But Steve always helps us to just find what the topic is in our book so we can follow along. 

How appropriate that THIS was what the message was today. Tomorrow is our Gotcha Day. God IS giving us such good things!

A little girl sat in front of us in church, as cute as could be. On her shirt were the words, “Clever girl, lucky to the someone”  I loved that. Lucky to the someone. People always say our kids are so lucky. But we know that WE are the lucky some ones who get to call them ours.

I will fill in the pages of our story between Hong Kong and now later in the week. But I do have to share that we met up with Steve, the guide I had on my last 2 trips over. Funny how things work. I was not happy when I found out I would have a male guide last March. So thankful the Lord always knows exactly what we need. He was such a great guide and I made sure we would then have him for my July trip. When he found out we were coming back over for adoption he quickly offered to join us. Simply as a friend. He is such a kind soul and we are so thankful for him.


Gotcha day happens tomorrow at 3pm. (Monday) For those of you at home, that is 2am during your Sunday night. I hate that it is so late, but not our choice.

Our lives are about to forever change. We will go from a family of 7 to a family of 9. One year ago we started this journey not knowing for sure what would happen. Just knowing that God had called us to return to China. And now here we are!

Tonight Syler and Mercie sleep for the last time as orphans. They will never again go to bed with out a hug and a kiss goodnight. They will never have to wonder what their future holds. They will become Laxtons, part of a family that already adores them and treasures them. They are so wanted and loved.

Forever is coming soon! 

Saturday, March 29, 2014

Blog update coming!

This is cousin Amy here. . . .  Shannon says to post that they will be arriving in Changsha tonight.  They will be trying to update the blog when they get there.  Gotcha day will be 3 pm on their Monday, which will be 2 am here.  They are thankful for all of your prayers!  Keep 'em coming!  I should add that they are doing fine!

Thursday, March 27, 2014

Hong Kong!

Our day started at 5am China time, after going to bed at midnight. So this is just a very short update because it is after 9 pm and we are exhausted! It was a very fun filled day. Weather is GORGEOUS here in Hong Kong. Sorry for my family back home who are freezing.  Malaine and I actually have a sunburn! ;-) Toured the city. Ate on a floating boat. Got to spend the evening with some special friends. It has been a really great day! And hopefully once I get sleep I will blog more. 







Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Day 1 Travel





Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you. He rises to show you compassion. For the Lord is a God of Justice. Blessed are all who wait for him. How gracious He will be when you cry for help. As soon as he hears you he will answer you. Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you saying, “this is the way, walk in it!”. 
Psalm 30

This was what I read in my quiet time today. It seemed so fitting for THIS day, the day we set out for our new children, the day we say goodbye to 4 at home.  I can still remember over a year ago wondering are we REALLY hearing the Lord to move forward with adopting again? And when I finally heard it, Mark was surely not thinking he heard that voice! But today we go because God DID speak clearly, he told us the way! 

Saying goodbye is always so hard. But Sage & Mavery sure add comic relief to that process. Monday evening turned out to be a bit crazy. We had planned to have some family time complete with ice cream and prayers.

Makenna came home from school with a note from the track trainer that she might have a possible stress fracture. She has had terrible shin splints ever since she started track this year. If you know Makenna, you know she does not give in easily, You might recall that at 6 years old she walked around for 3 days with a burst appendix, “because her stomach did not hurt that bad!” So we called the doctor in a panic, who quickly got us in for an appointment and x ray.  Thankfully all looked clean and she is supposed to just spend the next week in the evenings elevating it with ice. Grandma’s are going to have fun with that. Because in her words “That is a waste of my time”. Oy!  Pray for her if you will, that her legs would heal and no other follow up would be needed while we are away!

So, the evening certainly did not go as planned, but we did manage to get ice cream and I wanted to especially take some time to talk with Sage &  Mavery. Their favorite thing is snuggle time in mommy’s bed. Mavery got the first turn and as I am talking to her about what would be going on, how things would be different with Syler and Mercie coming and then I pray over her. The second I say Amen, she asks me why some people have such different tastes. “Like why do some people really like spicy and others don’t.” And on went the random questions.  Brought Sage in and same thing. I am all emotional trying to breathe words of love into them. They are just excited about the presents I am leaving them each day and staying at Adleys house on Friday along with the grandparents and Ms Jenny staying.

It is often asked at my house when my next trip to China is coming so they can have some fun. J It is good to know that they are loved well while we go.

I actually did manage to sleep. Here is the biggest luggage/stress for me. Besides the flights, it is the packing. I start packing SUPER early, I make check lists and as I pack, I check off my lists. But then the day of I am just CERTAIN even though it is marked off my list, it was removed from my suitcase. So I am digging and redigging through the suitcases.  Last panic was the Team Chenzhou shirts I was bringing for us to wear together. Had to go through all 4 to find them.

Speaking of luggage…. As I type this I am on the flight. My luggage, ALL my luggage is checked. After our fiasco this summer with MISSING luggage I swore I would always take as much on the plane as I could. And then I remembered how much I hate taking luggage ON the plane. Plus the idea of packing some fot the plane IN CASE I lose things, well what is most important really? Of course clothes would be good. But gifts are really important. Kids clothes are a big deal. Girl scout cookies are a huge deal!  So really ALL of it is a big deal and I just checked it all. We have our backpacks with one change of clothes. Maybe, not even sure Mark has that. So I am praying that once we land, our luggage is ALL there, all in one piece!


We had just a short flight from St Louis to Chicago. If you know me well, you know that I despise flying. Like go into panic flying. WHY the Lord called me so far away, well it is OBVIOUSLY to teach me to trust him even on flying! Already scared of flying, and then the whole missing plane situation, I have been calling on my friends for prayer.  I even asked Sawyer to stay up all night and pray us there!

St Louis to Chicago was good. A smaller plane so a bit rough going up and down, only had one small panic moment and it was good. Watching the excitement on Malaines’ face helped!  The joy of being in the CLOUDS, the wonder of lake Michigan, the awe of it all helped me to try to see it THAT way instead of how I see it. SCARY!

Landed in Chicago with just enough time to rush to our next gate, where there was NO good Chicago food and board! We are flying Cathay Pacific for the first time and it was so talked up I worried I would have my expectations to high. This is my 7th trip over, so I have flown a lot of airlines. And had some really rough schedules. But I am super impressed with my agent, my schedule and the plane! I wouldn’t say the seats are much bigger than some I have had, maybe a teeny bit. But the service has been amazing. It is a Hong Kong airline so that right there tells you it will be nice. They have been super sweet. Malaine got the best kids meals, our food was actually good. Snacks are available whenever you want. Entertainment system is great. I tried watching Thor, fell asleep all 3 times I tired. (Sorry Sawyer and Makenna!!) Did make it through Gravity. Fell asleep in Princess Diana. Mastered the solitaire game. Love having in seat chargers. OH and I am so happy that they have Frozen so Syler can watch it on the flight home in Chinese! Maybe it will even catch Mercies attention!

We now have just an 90 minutes left till landing. I have to say this has been the SMOOTHEST flight ever! A few bumps but never even enough to put the seatbelt sign on. I am going to believe that is back to that asking all my friends to pray me there, and I truly believe they are!! It is the calmest I have ever felt on a flight, I slept quite a bit of it and it really has not been bad. LONG, don’t get me wrong. 15 hours in a plane seat is just long. But knowing I do not have to have in country flights (praise the lord for the train!) and that I am SO close to my kids helps!

Malaine has been an excellent traveler, as we knew she would be. She is just happy and easy. She has not slept much on the flight, but has not complained at all. We will all be ready to get to our hotel soon.

We are staying at the Hong Kong airport hotel and will be doing a bit of touring there. Meeting up with my friend Alex, remember when we had Luke? He now has a baby sister so we are anxious to meet her!

We keep picturing what this will be like on our return. EEK!!! There are a few babies on this flight and all Mark and I can think of is bringing Mavery home. Who screamed the ENTIRE flight. I am hopeful that  Syler and Malaine will be ok with movies, games, etc. But baby girl?? Oh will you already pray for us??


Smooth landing! We are here in Hong Kong! We checked in our room, ate at McDonalds at the airport and are trying to connect to internet in the lobby. Yes, I know, McDonalds first night back in China. But it was easy and we are tired.

We just keep saying, we are so close, we are on the same hours now! Do miss my kids at home though and will be so excited to all be together again!

Monday, March 24, 2014

Oh our Bags are packed.....

We are ready to go!! Out of here in the morning, and maybe once settled at the airport I will have time to blog! :-) I think this is pretty good though. 5 people, 19 days, 16 boxes of girl scout cookies and I fit it all in 4 SMALLISH suitcases and 3 back packs! Thank you for praying for us. At this point I am even excited about the flight, so you KNOW I am ready to go!